Vanity Fair calls RED the Book
"Unsparingly frank and perceptive."
Buy it now!
I hung out with two close friends. They are so cute and make life so happy. When I listen to them I am reminded that the majority of people are capable of showing both compassion and judgmental ass-holeness.
I know what you mean about people being both things. Hopefully they're more often the compassionate than judgemental though.